Friday, October 17, 2008

lucky or not!

I was doing blood transfusion for one of my patients last night and i had to stay with her for the first 15minutes. She is 84 years old and has an end-stage alzheimer's. I was looking at her... naisip ko, "you're so lucky, lola... you found your TRUE LOVE". Her daughter mentioned to me kase that their mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's almost 10years already and their Dad insisted to take care of her... grabe noh?! parang sa The Notebook?! Last year masyadong ng mahirap for their dad. It was hard for them but they really had to convince him that they should put their mom in the Nursing Home. So, my patient went to Nursing Home and her husband visits her there. I was thinking saan ako kaya makahanap ng guy na ganoon?! That will stay with me even i tend to forget him or totally forget him, even i'm incontinent of urine and bowel... even i smell so stinky... di ba?! yun talaga ang TRUE LOVE!


Early in the morning, my other patient who's 97 years old asked for pain medication. Tinanong ba naman ako, "honey, how old are you?" I told her that she can guess, i really don't mind. Sabi ba naman, "16?" hahahahaa kakatuwa si lola! Do i look like 16? I told her that i'm older than that... i am 27 years old now! (darn... i'm 27!) She asked me if i'm married or if i have kids. I said, "Neither. Maybe you can find me a boyfriend." "Honey, i been divorce twice... better be single and enjoy life." *hooo T'was opposite. :D


"True LOVE isn't so much a dreamy feeling that you have as it is an enduring committment to give sacrificially-- even, or perhaps especially, when you don't feel like it." - W. Mattox Jr.

2 comments:

utoysaves said...

hi, NJ! i'm just dropping by to see how you're doing. God bless!

bits kakai said...

hi bits.. i just thought of checking your blogs.. i havent been here for such a long time.. i havent even been writing on my own blog.. i was touched with this one.. i know ur longing to find ur true love.. but theres no hurry right? as u said the best always comes to those who wait.. maybe lola waited for the right time thats why she found her one.. and maybe the other lola decided to stop as she found her frog princes twice.. and she stopped hoping to find her true prince after the second failure..i am the second lola i think bits.. but i hope ur the first lola.. someday.. when the time is right.. and when the right man comes.. u will find ur true love.. miss u XXX