Wednesday, January 30, 2008

DESIDERATA

"Desiderata" (Latin for "desired things", plural of desideratum) is an inspirational prose poem about attaining happiness in life. It was first copyrighted in 1927 by Max Ehrmann. -Wikipedia.com


Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Mr. Chips





Mr. Chips... our fave midnight snack when we were at WESTON HALL. I so love this all-girls dormitory! I miss my dorm mates... especially the people in Pearl Room1. Gosh... time flies so fast! parang kelan lang when we were still innocent, reckless, carefree, at parang walang problema sa mundo (not unless delayed ang allowance namin). It was 2001 when i left the place, & now it's 2008 all of my friends have their own family. When i called/emailed/chatted with them iba na ang topic - careers, relationships, kids, & marriages.

*sighs* It's fun to look back those years...

hmm pero teka, *napaisip* I'm the only single left... Before when they asked me, "When are you getting married?" I had this ever ready reply, "I need to learn how to cook first." Ngayon kaya kung tanungin nila ako ulit... what would be my answer?! *grins

aaaaahhhhh I'm now in mid-20s, i need to hurry!!! *LOL... i'm just kidding!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Component of HAPPINESS

COMPONENTS OF HAPPINESS

ACCEPTANCE everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change. (Katherine Mansfield)

CHEERFULNESS is the rich and satisfying result of strenuous discipline. (Edwin Percy Whipple)

CONTENTMENT do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things only hope for. (Epicurus)

FORGIVENESS admitting we are like other people. Saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred, the waste of spirits. (Hannah Moore)

HUMOR is laughing at what you haven't got when you ought to have it. (Langston Hughes)

SERENITY comes not alone by removing the outward causes and occasions of fear, but by the discovery of inward reservoirs to draw upon. (Rufus M. Jones)

GRATITUDE one of life's gifts is that each of us, no matter how downtrodden, find reason for thankfulness. (J. Robert Meskin)


(just want to share this to you guys... Tita L. sent this to me!)

Saturday, January 19, 2008

the trees



The Trees


No more leaves,
Looking sad,
Feeling cold,
Incomplete.

Waving its branches,
Swaying with the wind.
Birds come,
But they just go.

Dead.
Spring comes.
Alive.
Reality.


(the picture was taken after i got out from work last month
& the poem is originally written by me 12/03)



Thursday, January 17, 2008

cut the tie

Today is Theng's birthday... i should've call her early in the morning but i think her morning routine might be very busy. I'll call her later maybe around 5pm in Pinas... nagpapayaman kase ang bestfriend ko she has to meet lotsa clients kaya masyadong busy... ahhaha. I LOVE YOU, Best!

Anyways, i realized/learned/had-a-deep-thought about what's going on in my life lately... ayy akala ko tapos na! i'm here again... it's pulling me back!

Mom, "
You can't really move on if you keep looking back. You're the one who will make yourself miserable."
Papa, "
You guys have opposite goals in life... and if they say, "Opposites attract" Yeah they attract but they don't last. When it comes to goals you must compromise."

They are right... i'm glad they are here to support me. Sitting with them and telling them how i feel.... really helped! My bestfriends already gave me their sermons... maybe some of my friends are getting tired hearing this over and over again.. ahh!!! but here are some random conversations with my friends...

Macky, "
Trust is very important in a relationship. Do you think if you and Kwan will get back together will you be able to TRUST him completely... as in completely?"

Kai my bits, "
Ignore and forget them literally. They are not worth it.

Teray my bits, "
You're here and he's there sa pampitong bundok.... ang layo." (hirap translate bits LOL she is talking about "compromise")

Miss H (vonage customer), "
Remember, what goes around comes around."

Pawerpup Jaja, "
It's a blessing for you, wala ka na ulogtasan." (hinde na sasakit ang ulo mo sa hard headed person hehehe something like that in tagalog) Yo! Yo! (jaja... u really make me laugh with this one!)

Pawerpup Chubi, "
I know it's not easy but MOVE ON."

Ann-Ann, "Love is blind. You were blind. Never mind the two hippopotamus."


Nang Lyn, "
Pinaka sure way to survive our battles in life is to adapt & be responsive to changes."

Ate Jon, "
If God closes the door He opens the window. Besides you did your part as a girlfriend and as a friend."

Coldy, "
If it's pulling you back and dragging you down you have to and must cut the tie." (or else it can kill me or drown me?)


Dainanz' (funwall message for me), "
There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who will always will. So don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future."




Sunday, January 6, 2008

Foggy Road

It was foggy on my way home from work. I thought that sometimes in my life I am like driving on a foggy road... I have to have my headlights on and stay focus! I have to know where I am headed and which direction I am taking even the road is not clear. Good thing I have that "headlight/s". It really guides me. For sure one of those headlights is God above all, and my family, and also my friends. They are there to help me not to get lost... that, I am on the right path.

I should not allow those distractions to get me off course. Wag akong pa swerve swerve... Or i prolly end up somewhere else. I have to keep my eyes fixed straight ahead. I have to know where i am going. And, I will reach my destination ng walang sablay!

This is for Nene Chubi!


You're not only my pawerpup friend but also my lil sister... Thank you for the friendship! I'm grateful to have you in my life... not because i've someone to talk to about the craziness of life hahahaha... but i've YOU to tell me, "Manang Nehms, that is soooo pathetic!" (i think JP really influenced you LOL) Yeah, thank you for the "real" friendship! (maybe there are fake ones *winks you know what i mean!) Anyhow, this entry is for you! I want to say CONGRATULATIONS!!!! yeyyyyy you're Registered MedTech now!!!! good job!!! So, Chicago trip this spring???!!! We gonna have fun!!! i'm looking forward!

God bless you with your career... make more moneyyyyyyyy!!! *LOL mula-mula bebe!

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Welcome 2008

Goodbye 2007..... WELCOME 2008!!! Yeyyy!!! We have to open ourselves to the boundless grace of the present...


Thank you guys for being part of my 2007.... THANK YOU for the FRIENDSHIP!


And whatever comes on our way remember always, LIFE is BEAUTIFUL!